Robin E. Lostetter

Karen, I'm so sorry for your loss. You wrote so beautifully about this late life, cherished marriage--what a blessing!  May your memories give you comfort.  

And birthday greetings to Linda Lee Henry (Crowder)!   I hope it's been a joyful day!  

I don't post very much here, but I love reading about what everyone's doing. I can't believe that 2026 will be 60 years since graduation at Goddard & Roswell High -- the first graduating class from Goddard.  What are y'all's memories from that split foisted on us?  And look, today, we never let that split divide us on this site.  We won!

Karen McCarty (Messina)

Thank you Robin for your kind words. And happy birthday to Linda!  Hopefully we can all meet once again for our 60th reunion. Won't that be fun?!

James A "Jim" White

Is anyone doing anything? The Class of 65 had their 60th reunion this past weekend. Any reports on that terrific class? Robin suggested topics in her last posting. Any comments? There is much sadness at our age. We keep being diagnosed with critical illnesses, dementia is not the least. We are losing friends from our youth. Be like TERRY BOONE and JIMMY BROWN who arranged to meet in Colorado last week. By the way, guys, I was close by and did not know. Well, it was not the first time I was excluded.  This week alone I learned one close friend was diagnosed with cancer and another popular classmate had the "widow maker" heart attack and open heart surgery, and survived both. I ramble too much so please chime in with what is going on in your life.

Margaret W. "Peggy" Ware (Koger)

Thanks for the updates Jim! I know we all appreciated them. So sorry to hear about others issues. 
keep up the good work and best of luck getting a new RV!

Karen McCarty (Messina)

iWell, here we go again on the health and wellness roller coaster!  I had my first ever breast biopsy today. What an experience I cannot recommend for those who are squeamish! Lol. Anyway, I feel sure God has already healed me so I'm not worried.  I am adjusting to the empty house and not having my caregiver role any longer. After two years of being a caregiver, it feels odd to not have anything to care for or to take to Dr appts so maybe my body decided it was time to take care of me.  If anyone wants to know the ins and outs of that procedure feel free to private message me. I won't bore the general feed with the details but it is an interesting procedure from a laypersons prospective.   
I would love to know how the class of 65 did on their class reunion  Does anyone have any details  if so please share  2026 will be coming up quickly! 

James A "Jim" White

The next birthday on our front page list is WARREN MONROE. I  believe Warren has passed but do not know for certain. Warren was in the V.A. Center in Yountville, northern California (near Napa). He had leukemia but was active there for years, playing golf even. Anyway, his cell phone is disconnected. I called the center and was transfered about 8 times and no one would tell me if he passed. I could not find an obituary locally. Can anyone else get an answer? KEITH BURKE really wanted to know before he died because they joined the Marine Corp together.

I there anyone else we should pray for at present? Bless you and help us find our living and deceased classmates. BOB REAM and KAREN HARRINGTON REAM, are you living in Oklahoma yet? Hey RVers, JIM SAUNDERS, WALLY REYNOLDS and others, are you still crossing the nation? Others, please copy KAREN McCARTY MESINNA and give us a report. We really do care to hear. Rock on, Class of '66. You are the best!

James A "Jim" White

Yes, we are still seeking a chairperson for the next reunion in 2026. Helpers will volunteer as soon as you do. Look at these lovely girls from a reunion a number of years ago. Know any of them. Sadly, three have already passed on -- Shirley Tyner, Margaret Nichols and Patty Lackey. Let me toss out some names and see if you can tell which one it is. Bouncing around, I will give first names and last initials of maiden name (pardon my off the cuff spelling) -- Jane Ann G, Tiny D, Pam L, Karen, Marianne C, Betsy F, Mary H, Judy R, Doreen W, Barbara B, Doris F. Did I get everyone?

James A "Jim" White

Doreen Williams and Sammy Davis. I have not heard anything about Sammy in years. How is he doing. Anything else going on?

It is not only okay, but welcomed and encouraged for you to post pictures and let us know what is going on in your life.

~Jim

James A "Jim" White

One of several C.D.'s BOBBIE ALLISON gave Kathy and me. This past week was the anniversary of his passing, and his wife, ERNIE, passed less than two weeks later. We visited with Bobby about 4 days before he passed (from Parkinsons), and talked with Ernie less than 12 hours before she passed. Ernie had no health problems anyone knew of so we think BOBBY pulled Ernestine up to Heaven.

Early in Bobby's career, he was still a singer/songwriter competing in Nashville and meeting other musicians. A couple musicians stated, "We wish we could get a recording contract.' Bobby replied, "I have one. Should we work together?" Over the years, Bobby had recording contracts with Epic Records, RCA and another. By the way, this C.D. was made by Bobby's musician buddy, Gerry, 30+ years after they recorded the songs, Gerry made this and one other C.D. off reel to reel tapes. Bobby was a great friend to many, and many were great friends with Bobby.

James A "Jim" White

Having fun at the high school reunion!

Karen McCarty (Messina)

Thank you Jim for all the class news. I love all the pictures and honor given to those who have passed before us.  My pathology report for breast cancer came back negative!!  Hallelujah !!  I praise the Lord for good health!  I guess He has more for me to do here before I go to our heavenly home.  Unfortunately, I have now buried three husbands, but I am not up to Liz Taylor's number nor Zha Zha Gabor (sp?) level yet!  I've decided three is the magic number. Now my plans are to sell this house and move to Dothan AL where my only child (daughter) lives. I have found a lovely condo and I am happy to move away from "hurricane alley" after living here for 13 years!  I will keep my information posted online when the move is imminent.  As I have aged all the line have blurred, the knees and hips have aches and pains but fortunately I am still moving with the Grace of God!  I wish the same for everyone! 

James A "Jim" White

"When nights get lonely, we can look back at pictures of the memories we created."   ~JW

KAREN McCARTY MESSINA has been open about her life, dancing, being a care taker, being a widow. Why don't we all be open? Classmates do care and Karen is a wonderful classmate who Kathy and I were fortunate to spend time with in Florida.

Speaking about caring, we should send our well wishes and prayers to DENNIS HUNTER. Dennis had about six inches of his esophogus and a small section of his stomach removed. It has been two years and he is still weak, although I am not certain if it is from the physical ailments or having sold his classic car that he had unlimited hours and $90,000 invested.

Dennis has also been helpful with helping run this website.

Patricia Jo "Pat" Bush (Hodges)

I am sorry to report that my friend, Sharon Curtis Perry (class '66 Goddard) passed away last wek following a lengthy illness.  She was descended from a pioneer family in Glenrose.  Her service was October 25.

Karen McCarty (Messina)

Thank you Jim for the memories. Life is too short to not enjoy and help others.  My daughter and grand are visiting me now from Alabama. We are now in Disney Springs at Raglan Road pub (the Irish pub). Just had a toast to Paul (husband of 50 years) and John (husband of three years). Both are gone but not forgotten.  I am so sorry for all those who have passed on before us. After many sleepless nights of crying we decided to celebrate the time we did have with both of them.   My daughter Rowena on the left.  Me in the middle  

James A "Jim" White

A special "thank you" to PATRICIA "PAT" HODGES for informing us of her dear friend, SHARON CURTIS PERRY passing away. Please, folks, follow Pat's example and let us know if a classmate has passed away. Along that line, BILL SLOAN informed us that TIM LIVINGSTON passed away and I was able to confirm he passed away in 2022. Also, COL. BILL SLOAN (Ret.) is doing his USMC duty and checking to see if WARREN MONROE, another marine from our class, has passed away.

We are not going to Palm Springs to see BARARA BUZBEE this year but probably will next year. Anyone else goes to this lovely place and would like a fantastic host to show you around?

James A "Jim" White

MARY HUSEMOLLER and I enjoyed a glass of wine outside her incredible, stunning, beautiful show home outside Durango, CO. She now lives in her other stunning home near the seashore in southern California. Mary, you are so much fun!

MARDI GONYEA NICKLIN is one of our very few classmates that will admit to wearing a wig. She asks, "How do you like me now?" Mardi was the person responsible for starting this class website and helping administrate it for years. If you ever pass near Kerrville, Texas (off I-10), she would love to see you. Once Kathy and I were stranded out by Medina Lake as our truck was being worked on. Mardi loaned us her car for nearly a week, which left her without transportation. Is she a caring classmate or what?

Mardi Gonyea (Nicklin)

Karen McCarty (Messina)

Hi Mardi!  Love the picture of you and your "hair"!  Beautiful as always.  I am slowly getting things packed. Listing of my house goes live on November 15 so I'm trying to get it presentable for pictures.  As everyone knows, selling, moving packing, finding the next home, unpacking, etc etc is not for the weak of heart!!  All I can say is, I am taking it one day at a time!  I will keep you posted on my progress

Tommy Morton

Hi Guys and Gals. I dont get over this was very often, but here I am. I am starting to post photos of the RHS 1965 reunion so here is the link of what I have posted so far.. 

RHS 65 60th Reunion.

Let me know if this does not work.

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ALSO 

 I copied this from another RHS65 website (https://www.rams65.com/) and lightly edited it to match our RHS65 bunch. Hope you enjoy.

"The Last Supper"

We are in the Final Lap of Life's Race It's Time to Make Amends
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Coyotes 10 Commandments for RHS 65 as we navigate our 70s
 

Face and accept the reality of getting old, it's not just you - it's all of us. Acknowledge and accept the consequences of age. Act and behave your age. You can't look like you did when you were 18 and we still had "many miles to go before we sleep ...".

Focus on enjoying life and people, especially your loved ones, friends and classmates. The days of indulging in or accumulating material things should be ending. You can't take it with you ... and you shouldn't try.

Don't hesitate to spend whatever you have worked so hard to save on yourself and for the positive benefit of others. You worked hard to earn it ... you deserve to enjoy it or bless others with it in the years you have left. Travel if you can afford it. You are not obligated to leave anything for your children or loved ones to potentially quarrel over.

Live in the moment ... live for today ... live for the here and now. Don't pine over the yesterdays and worry about tomorrows. Today is what you have. Yesterday is already gone. Tomorrow may not even happen ...

Enjoy your grandchildren (if you are so blessed) but you don't have an obligation to care for them if they are in a safe and loving family environment. Your primary parental obligation was to your children. After you raised your children into responsible adults, your duties of child-rearing and babysitting should be finished. Let your children raise their own offspring ... and back them up where necessary ... it's what Coyotes do.

Stay as healthy as you can. Accept God's Plan and the unavoidable physical weakness, sickness, and other physical pains as they come. It is part of the normal aging process. Enjoy whatever your health allows.

Appreciate who and what you are. Be grateful for what you have. Be proud of being a 1965 Coyote. Stop working so hard for things you do not have. Life's races are done. If you do not have those things, it's probably too late.

Enjoy life with your spouse, children, grandchildren, fellow Coyotes and other friends.., people, who appreciate and love you for yourself.

Forgive others and accept forgiveness from others. Most of all, forgive yourself. Make amends if you can find it within you. Reconcile with those from whom you are estranged if possible. Seek peace of mind and peace of soul. Seek the Peace of the Almighty.

Come to terms with death. Coyote Heaven is coming for all of us, and it is a natural part of the life cycle. Don't be afraid. Death is the beginning of a new and better adventure.

Arrive there with Coyote Pride ... 


Never Forget Your Classmates


A young man was talking to his father about growing up, marriage, and responsibilities.  The Father said, "Never forget your friends," he advised, "they will become more important as you get older. regardless of how much you love your family and your children.  Stay in touch with them somehow.  "What strange advice!" thought the young man.  "I just got married, I am becoming an adult and surely my wife and children will be everything I need to make sense of my life.“  Over the years, he began to understand what his father was talking about.  Although time and nature carry out their designs, friends and classmates are life’s bulwarks.



After over 78 years of life, and approaching 60 years after graduation here is what we learned:

•  Time passes.

•  Life goes on.

•  Distance separates us.

•  Children grow up and are eventually are separated from their parents.

•  Jobs come and jobs go.

•  Our illusions, desires, attractions, sex ... weakens.

•  People do not do what they should.

•  Our hearts break.

•  Our parents die.

•  Our colleagues forget the favors.

•  Life’s races end.


... but a school friend is a treasure who stays in your heart forever ... no matter how many years or miles you are apart.



When we started this adventure called life in 1965, we did not know of the joys or sorrows that lay ahead.  We did not know how much we would need from each other.  We loved our parents, we took care of our children, but most of all we have kept a group of good friends.

Over 60 years may have separated me from some of my classmates … but they are still … each and every one … my friend. 

 

James A "Jim" White

A special Thank You to TOMMY MORTON for the great comments he posted, and for all his help over the years with my inept administration of this class website. 

Yes, we are coming up on 55-years the end of this month. Kathy and I saw Englebert Humperdinck the first year of our marriage, and for our 54th anniversary last November. How about you? Whether 50+ years or one year, tell us how you are enjoying life.

James A "Jim" White

This was four years ago but what a wonderful time seeing classmates and also a gazillion elk roaming around the area. The classmates here are ELIZABETH GWARTNEY LOWNEY, JUDY ADAMS MORRIS and, of course, me.

Tommy Morton

Thanks Jim. Have you tried the link to the photo RHS 65 photo gallery and does it work? 

FYI: I was in a bad head on collision September 06, 2025. I am in a Skilled nursing rehab center at the moment and hope to go home in the next ten days as soon as I can learn to walk again. I broke my shin bone badly and had surgery reconstructing the lower leg back together.

I now have my laptop so am able to help Magaret get the 65 reunion history documented.

James A "Jim" White

Thank you, TOMMY MORTON, and we are so sorry to learn of your horrific auto crash. Best wishes for you walking again soon and as full of recovery as you can possibly get.

Classmates, are you contacting your classmates friends and checking on them? Last night I called and talked with one of my friends for over 50-years. He was explaining to me that recently he was walking along an east Texas highway and a fellow pulled over and asked if he needed a ride. He replied, "No" and as the driver was about to pull away, my friend (also a Jim) came out of his delirium and recognized the danger he was in. He had no idea where and when he started walking along a busy highway. Turns out that Jim has been diagnosed with Alzheimers. I know of others in our class that have that diagnosis, which we are all prone to have. Call your classmate friends and although it has been against our rules in the past, I will give you a phone number if you do not know one and I have it. No stalkers allowed! Would it be okay if your friend phoned you after 60 years? It works vice virsa. If you have a request, send it on a private note/request to me, not on our front page.

Finally, let me say I am embarrassed that almost every comment on our class website is written by me. This is NOT a Jim White Facebook page, so please chime in or offer information on your activities. Classmates do really care.

Jim (CT last week, NJ this week, CO and NM next week)

Patricia "Patsi" Hughes

That's awful Tommy! Prayers you recover fast.  Love the pictures you posted, good to see people after all these years. 
 Sorry about your friend Jim. Age is kind of sad sometimes. 
 

patsi

James (Jim) H. Sanders

Sorry to have gone silent for so long.

Thanks to Jim White for contacting Tommy Morton and thanks to Tommy for publishing the RHS '65 60th reunion photos and words of wisdom.

Janet & I were supposed to be on the road with the trailer right now on a 2-3 month (National Parks) tour of the US visiting parks that we have not yet seen....... but plans have changed.  She was just wrapping up our planned itinerary when, on August 28, she lost her balance while getting out of the trailer. She grabbed the 'crash bar' on the screen door to try to break her fall, but the bar broke free from the door and she fell 4 or 5 feet to the ground (it's a very large trailer that's parked beside our house on a slightly elevated pad).  She suffered a compression fracture of one of her lumbar vertebrae, so that ended our trip then & there. She has just finished rehabbing the injury (and adjusting our 'tour' schedule for an August 2026 departure) and is once again 'good to go'. 

Our tentative departure date is 10 August:  (and all dates are, as Jim White well knows, are flexible)
Drive to South Dakota from Portland, OR, arriving 14 August  (Wiind Cave & Badlands NP & Mt. Rushmore!)
21 August:  to North Dakota (Theodore Roosevelt NP)
24 August: to International Falls, MN (Voyageurs NP)
28 August: to Grand Portage, MN (Isle Royale NP)
30-31 August: to (Indiana Dunes NP)
02 September: to St. Louis (Gateway Arch NP)
04 September: to Mamoth Cave NP
07 September: to Cuyahoga NP
TBD: to upstate NY (Niagra Falls)
Maine (Acadia NP) -->
Boston (maybe) -->
Philadelphia, PA (visit family) -->
~29 Sept-10 Oct: to Shenandoah NP, Mammoth Cave NP, Great Smoky Mountains NP, (Skyline Drive.. somehow), Congaree NP
~11-20 Oct: to Hot Springs NP, then down to Big Bend NP, maybe Carlsbad Caverns NP & on to Las Cruces to visit family
~27 Oct: head back to PDX, schedule & routing TBD by weather and our need to get off the road and back home.

2024 was a tough year for me (loss of Jill Webster Reed, Laurie Shuey Anderson & Jimmy Gill) and 2025 started off very badly for us with the sudden and unexpected death of Janet's younger sister Karen Mavvaji in Las Cruces on January 2nd.  Karen was their mother's live-in caregiver. She and their mom Lucille had relocated to Las Cruces from Ft. Worth in early 2024, and had just moved into a very nice 55+ community on the west side of town.

More later, but I'm all typed out now. We're planning a late April / early May trailer trip down to Las Vegas for my bowling camp and to visit some CA & Colorado parks. 60 years of so of league bowling and I'm still working on my game; 2 300's to my credit now, but I'm still searching for that 800 3 game series.

If I had it all to do over again, I might have opted out of that 2nd year of mechanical drawing at RHS and taken the typing class.........I never did learn how to 'touch type'..........

Jim