Julia "Jill" Webster (Reed)
Hi RHS-GHS '66. It has been a while since I posted an update on Jill so I thought I should today.
In May, my daughter put her monther into hospice care. She has continued to decline. The staff at the facility doesn't know what is keeping her alive. I told them that she has always said she would out live me because I didn't take good enough care of myself and she is going to prove it. She sleeps all but a few hours each day. Most days she eats no meals. Mostly she is surviving on 2 or 3 bottles of Booste each day.
Her actions have changed drastically. If the staff is doing something she doesn't want to do she pinches, bites, or spits on them. They were trying to change her clothes one day when I was there and she didn't want them to. I got closer to see if I could help and spit at me and said "That's what you get for doing nothing". Yesterday I went by and she was sleeping. I asked if she could wake up and talk to me. She said "No, go away and leave me alone".
We all learned recently that Jimmy Carter lived in hospice for 10 years. Jill may beat his record.
I tell her what is going on with the class and show her pictures that are sent to me but she shows no sense of recognition.
God Bless You All. I am so sorry to hear about all the fires, huricanes, and flooding many have endured. Made my hail storm seem minor and I got a new roof. And you have lost many members. I know that they are in God's loving arms.
Sincerely,
Harold (H.D.) Reed
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