James A "Jim" White
DO YOU REALLY CARE? That question has several variations or, as English Professor Betty McCombs Patton would say, "It has ramifications." First, let me address those that are suffering at the moment. We do not know of any classmate having Covid-19 right now, but Wally Reynolds did just lose his sweet wife of 53 years from it.
And did you know that Laurie Shuey Andersen just got to "touch" her husband of 49 years for the first time in six-months? Andy had to be taken in very critical condition from a nursing home to a hospital in order for Laurie to physically touch and rub his arm.
There is hurt going on out there. One of our classmates just completed his Y90 radiation treatment for liver cancer, which might have given him 5 more years (from my internet search), only to find out this week the cancer has now mastascized to three other organs.
Another classmate that everyone also loves is fighting spindle cell carcinoma and is having a horrific battle.
A lady classmate has a nerve problem that when walking outside, a small bit of wind can produce extreme pain since her skin is so sensitive. And do you know that classmate with Lyme Disease, for years every joint in her body hurts? It can be totally debilitating at times. Be glad I am not describing the illnesses that recently
took Margaret Nichols Kuenzler or Sterling Grant. Should I continue further? Heck, who would have guessed, with her past history and dying on the table a couple times, Mardi Gonyea Nicklin would be one of the healthiest in our class?
Others that have died on the table but have been brought back to life include Mary Mauldin Garcia and Gayle Moore Diorio.
Sorry, I hate writing such Debbie Downer messages but I care about these people I grew up with and hope you do too. Classmates generally will NOT let us know what is going on for fear they would be viewed as pandering for sympathy.
That is not true. We want to know if something is going on in your life. We do care so do not be afraid to mention you or your family's conditions, or ask for prayers if you are a believer.
Second, let me ask all classmates, have you tried to look up your friends from high school? If not, why not? If you need help, contact me to help find that person. Also, if you would like someone other than you to advise the class what is going on in your life, then contact (blabbermouth) me then too.
I am traveling, will be in six states within the next 4-6 weeks, and rarely have a good WiFi to work with, but I will try.
Class of '66 (and '65 and '67), YOU ARE THE BEST!
Jim White
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